Parent-in-law
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A parent-in-law is a person who has a legal affinity with another by being the parent of the other's spouse. Many cultures and legal systems impose duties and responsibilities on persons connected by this relationship. A person is a child-in-law to the parents of the spouse, who are in turn also the parents of those sibling-in-laws (if any) who are siblings of the spouse (as opposed to spouses of siblings). Together, the members of this family affinity group are called the in-laws.[1]
Fathers-in-law
[edit]A father-in-law is the father of a person's spouse.[2] Two men who are fathers-in-law to each other's children may be called co-fathers-in-law, or, if there are grandchildren, co-grandfathers.
Mothers-in-law
[edit]A mother-in-law is the mother of a person's spouse.[3] Two women who are mothers-in-law to each other's children may be called co-mothers-in-law, or, if there are grandchildren, co-grandmothers.
In comedy and in popular culture, the mother-in-law is stereotyped as bossy, unfriendly, hostile, nosy, overbearing and generally unpleasant. They are often depicted as the bane of the husband, who is married to the mother-in-law's daughter. A mother-in-law joke is a joke that lampoons the obnoxious mother-in-law character.
Some Australian Aboriginal languages use avoidance speech, so-called "mother-in-law languages", special sub-languages used when in hearing distance of taboo relatives, most commonly the mother-in-law.
A type of dwelling, usually guest accommodations within a family home, that may be used for members of the extended family, is sometimes referred to as a mother-in-law suite.
Parent-in-law relationships
[edit]Parent-in-laws are often viewed as either a source of conflict or a source of support in a marriage relationship. Jealousy, competition, differences, and disillusioned expectations can cause conflict to arise in these relationships. The perception of parent-in-laws as negative influences on your marriage leads to the characterization of female in-laws as particularly difficult. The stereotyped mother-in-law joke finds humor in the reality of conflict with in-laws. Positive influences have also been noted as in-laws can be a found family for partners/child-in-laws who are not as close to their own family.[4]
While it is sometimes thought that conflict with in-laws will have a disastrous effect on the future of a marriage,[5] the degree of connection to parents-in-law has not been found to influence the success of a marriage. Lack of success of a marriage may be due not to conflict with parents-in-law, but on whether the couple are on the same page about conflicts. There may be discordant perceptions between spouses about their relationships with their in-laws; disagreements on those connections may harm marriage outcomes.[6]
See also
[edit]References
[edit]- ↑ "in-law". Merriam-Webster. Retrieved 12 September 2014.
- ↑ "father-in-law". Merriam-Webster. Retrieved 12 September 2014.
- ↑ "mother-in-law". Merriam-Webster. Retrieved 12 September 2014.
- ↑ Silverstein, Judith L. (1992). "The problem with in-laws". Journal of Family Therapy. 14 (4): 399–412. doi:10.1046/j..1992.00469.x – via Wiley Online Library.
- ↑ Bryant, Chalandra M. (2001). "The Influence of In-Laws on Change in Marital Success". Journal of Marriage and Family. 63 (3): 614–626. doi:10.1111/j.1741-3737.2001.00614.x. JSTOR 3654637.
- ↑ Fiori, Katherine L.; Rauer, Amy J.; Birditt, Kira S.; Brown, Edna; Orbuch, Terri L. (2021). "You Aren't as Close to my Family as You Think: Discordant Perceptions about In-laws and Risk of Divorce". Research in Human Development. 17 (4): 258–273. doi:10.1080/15427609.2021.1874792. ISSN 1542-7609. PMC 8133523. PMID 34025298.
External links
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The dictionary definition of parent-in-law at Wiktionary- Audio recording of the Brothers Grimm folktale "The Mother-in-law"
