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Denise Stokes | |
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| Born | March 31, 1969 |
| Occupation | HIV activist |
| Organization | Presidential Advisory Council on HIV/AIDS |
Denise Stokes (born March 31, 1969) is an American HIV activist and consultant. She is best known for her role on the Presidential Advisory Council on HIV/AIDS and for her activism in support of her fellow HIV-positive individuals.
Biography
[edit]Stokes was born in Manhattan and raised in Atlanta, Georgia. At a young age, her goal was to study poetry at Harvard University or UCLA.[1] At age 13, she was raped by a construction worker in Savannah, Georgia.[2] At 16, she decided she wanted to join the U.S. military, but was turned away by the recruiter, who stated that she had contracted HIV and that she'd "die before you turn 21". At that time, she believed she had contracted the disease from her boyfriend,[3] who was bisexual,[4] but she later learned she had contracted the disease from when she was raped.[5]
When she told her mother she was HIV-positive, she was forced out of the house to protect the rest of the family, and lived at a bowling alley for the remainder of her high school while working at a fast food restaurant.[5]
She slowly began becoming addicted to drugs, first alcohol, then cannabis, and eventually crack cocaine.[1] She swapped sex for drugs, and while she did use condoms, she did not inform her partners that she was positive for HIV. The one time she did disclose it, to a man trying to force himself on her, he broke her jaw.[4] She also worked many jobs, including selling life insurance.[4] She started checking herself into drug treatment facilities[4] after being harassed by a group of teenage drug dealers.[6] She subsequently worked with an AIDS-supporting nonprofit to do outreach work.[4] She has recounted doctors misprescribing her with a medication that caused skin lesions[7] and being required to wait outside in line for hours for medication, collapsing in her own urine, while hospital employees stepped over her.[8]
During the Clinton administration, she served on the Presidential Advisory Council on HIV/AIDS[9], where she gave a speech at announcing of the HIV/AIDS Initiative for Minority Communities and was acknowledged by President Bill Clinton.[10][11] She also featured in the government campaign to promote the use of condoms, starring in two ads.[12]
She spoke at the 2004 Democratic National Convention,[13][14] where her speech focused on AIDS issues.[15] She spoke between Governor Kathleen Sebelius and Mayor Don Plusquellic.[16]
She is also a frequent public speaker.[17] She served as a spokesperson for the Rap it Up campaign for condoms, and contributed to James Adler's Memento Mori.[13]
She released a spoken-word poem CD, The Glass Staircase, on her birthday March 31, 2002.[18] She is also the author of a memoir, From The Crack House To The White House.[19][13]
References
[edit]- 1 2 Turner, Kimberly (Fall 1993). "WOMEN WHO ARE INFECTED". Esteem Magazine. p. 2.
- ↑ Crawford, Johnny (October 2001). "AIDS survivor shares her story through poetry". Atlanta Journal-Constitution.
- ↑ Lumpkin, Kenneth (August 18, 1994). "AIDS Victim Fight for Her Life to Save Others". Racine Journal-Times.
- 1 2 3 4 5 Thomas, Keith L. (September 1992). "Carrying The Message". Atlanta Journal-Constitution.
- 1 2 Velasco, Catherine Ann. "You're not Immune to AIDS, teens told". Racine Journal-Times.
- ↑ Souter, Ericka (June 2011). "HIV: Thirty Years Later: The Longtime Survivor". Essence.
- ↑ Favila, Dave. "Doctors focus on AIDS". The Brownsville Herald.
- ↑ "Report: AIDS death plummets 19%". Associated Press. July 15, 1997.
- ↑ SAMHSA News. Office of Communications. 1997.
- ↑ "Comments by Denise Stokes on 10/28/98". clintonwhitehouse4.archives.gov. Retrieved 2026-08-10.
- ↑ "Remarks Announcing the HIV/AIDS Initiative in Minority Communities | The American Presidency Project". www.presidency.ucsb.edu. Retrieved 2026-08-10.
- ↑ "Government begins campaign promoting use of condoms". Delphos Herald. January 5, 1994.
- 1 2 3 RTMNews (2012-10-31). "Atlanta Speaker/Author Has New Book". Atlanta Daily World. Retrieved 2026-08-10.
- ↑ "DEMS TO FEATURE HIV-POSITIVE SPEAKER AT CONVENTION; AIDSVOTE ACTIVISTS ARE INSIDE AND OUTSIDE THE HALL". AIDSVote. July 27, 2004.
- ↑ "User Clip: Denise Stokes on Critical AIDS Issues | Video | C-SPAN.org". www.c-span.org. Retrieved 2026-08-10.
- ↑ "Daily schedule". Chron. 2004-07-23. Retrieved 2026-08-10.
- ↑ Patti Lynch, Stinner. ""I'm A Teen And I Have AIDS"". Straight Talk Magazine.
- ↑ Battle, Ursula. "From streets to the White House: Meet Denise A. Stokes, a real-life survivor". Baltimore Times.
- ↑ Norris, Nia. "12 Recovery Memoirs by Black Authors You Need to Read". Labākos Latvijas kazino. Retrieved 2026-08-10.